Saturday, April 7, 2007

how men's and women's way of thought...

hmm...somehow, dunno why i could suddenly think bout this case, but it just past in my mind just an hour ago..this topic might be interesting to everyone who read this ^^ well, no hard feelings and no offense on anybody okay? it was just opinion about common was just a part of my self survey result, correct me if i am wrong in the comment post ^^

let's just start then..

well, as the part of relationship, there might be conflict between each other (it's quite true rite?) relationships that can run smoothly without any problems occured between both..

in my point of view, i had already got and heard several cases of the problems, and the major problem is just on how men's and women's way of thought...

let's check it first from what most women might think of (since i am a man, and mostly have problems with girls lah ya..)
from men's point of views, women are so complicated (no offense and no hard feelings once again)..

why could men think like that?
first, for men, we somehow don't really aware on such a small issue, but for women, they do..somehow a small issue could be raised into a big issue, and then it becomes greater and greater...
second, we somehow feel weird on girls, they could suddenly be bored or mad on something, while previously everything was just fine..this situation makes boys feel difficult to understand girls...well, it could be understood some ways, for example if at that time they are having their period times (is it true gals?? just my assumption hard feelings yah)..but sometimes, they could be like that because of small issue (again..)

now, from women's point of views, men are also so complicated (it happens the same way but in different thoughts..for gals, correct me if i'm wrong yah )..

why could women think like that?
first, there are too many things that should be understood from men..they might think that boys always wish of so many things, that girls will come end with stress out with this kind of things..
second, boys sometimes don't try hard to understand how girls' feeling..for this case, i still have no idea bout it since i'm not a woman ^^ so help us (boys) out yah gals ^^ we do try hard, but sometimes we just don't get the idea of the perfect solution..

hmm,,i think there might be more from gals, but i dunno how to write it down ^^ so i think dat's all...

this blog might create a pro&contra situation, i hope that there will be no word-wars or fight against this topic...i just hope that for those who read this blog could share their idea or thought, so that we could understand more...lookin for the cooperation...enjoy!! ^^

(whew...seems like an essay already yak? hiks, just make me feel more get into wrong major of study T_T)